And it begins anew

Halloween has been over for days now, and I am amazed that the snow is still here. It fell in huge, fluffy clumps on the night of the 30th, just as Hunter's Birthday Surprise (which went off without a hitch! He was so confused and stunned!) was coming to an end.

The snow, a sparkling white blanket, was still there the next morning--inches thick on the car and back deck. The chickens were huddled in the shed, leery of the frost out in their pen and the ice that had formed in their water bowls. It was so cold that Hubby had to shut their little door to the pen and plug in the heat lamp for the old girls. Their days are numbered, but no need to freeze 'em beforehand.

That morning, we defrosted the windows of the car and cranked up the heater, then packed up the trunk with costumes and pumpkins and treats.

The chill outside was palpable. The pines in our front yard drooped from the heavy snowfall. The chimneys of our neighbours puffed merrily as if each was trying to out-puff the others. The kids on our street threw snowballs and made snow angels and wiped mittened hands across runny noses with glee.

In fact, the entire drive to my in-laws was every inch a Christmas scene, and had we a holiday CD in the car, Hubby would have popped it in the player. The only difference between that drive and the usual wintery landscape? The pumpkin heads on the snowmen!

Parkas-over-costumes aside, the kids weren't too bothered by the weather that night. They traipsed from house to house, begging foodstuffs from Jackie's neighbours. They came back, after 1.5 hours of trick-or-treating, with rosy cheeks, chilled hands and bulging bags of goodies. And, even though it was a school night, we ended the evening by going over to my Dad's place for post-Halloween burgers and pumpkin cake. A good time had by all for sure.

And, now? It looks like Christmas is settling in for the long haul. The snow is on the ground (with more flurries expected this weekend). The songs are already playing on my car stereo. The December magazines have started appearing. And--dare I say it? I already received my first holiday party invitation in the mail! Sure, it's a community ''Breakfast with Santa'' thing sent to everyone in our village--and sure, it was printed on pink paper as opposed to red or green--but it still counts. Sorta.

Can you hear the Whoville Whos singing "Welcome Christmas, Welcome, Welcome" in the background or is it just me?

Spooking the pants off the kids

Been spending the last few days whipping this bungalow in the woods into haunted house status for my nephew's surprise Halloween birthday party. You see, months ago, Big H came to my sister and said:

"Mommy, for my next birthday, I want to have a surprise party. And, I want you to film it, so I can see the surprise on my face."

Jax was left stumped by this request. How was she to throw Hunter a surprise party--if he was asking for it?

Besides, it has never been easy planning a party for him. His birthday is the week before Christmas, so it's always difficult to organize anything with his classmates and friends at such a busy time of year. Everyone is always visiting family, attending other parties or busy doing last-minute holiday planning.

Last year, because Jax doesn't really have the room for an indoor party (and since December means an indoor party!), she spent countless hours finding a venue for the party (everything was already booked up for Christmas parties and events!) only to have three or so of the dozen kids invited show up.

So, after we discussed the situation, we decided to throw him a party well in advance of his actual birthday. This way, it really would be a surprise! And, it wouldn't be at that crazy time of year, either. We also decided to have the party at my house to help keep it a surprise--and because I have more room, both inside and out. Yes, it means another party at our house (that makes four this month, I believe), but that's what October is all about!

The party plan began as a pirate-themed shindig since Hunter wanted to be a pirate for Halloween, but then slowly evolved into a general Halloween party. Jax wanted to make sure that all the kids could re-use their costumes for the event and would not feel obligated to show up in pirate attire. She decided to save the pirate theme for the twins' party this summer. Might work better as a pool party anyways.

Since Jax is handling party foods and cake, my only real job is decorating and coming up with the scavenger hunt. The idea is to not only surprise Hunter with the party decorations and activities, but to scare him a bit, too!

To that effect, Brooke and I have been busy bedazzling foam bats, stringing up gauze strips in our spooky tree and blowing up pumpkin balloons for the last couple of days now. We also made a mini "Grave Garden" (as Brooke calls it) under the tree with some skeleton garden stakes and foam tombstones we found at the dollar store. We even revived Ol' Brunhilda, my porch witch from Rockland. She is now frowning angrily at visitors by the door, her brewing pot overflowing with bones, spiders, snakes and eyeballs at her feet. The place has really morphed into a haunted house.

Was fun to do. Hadn't really decorated for Halloween since we moved, as we are really in the woodsy country here and won't likely get many trick-or-treaters. That, and we have decided to trick-or-treat in town with the cousins anyways, so I guess we will never really know how many kids show up.

Today, we'll tackle the pumpkins. We have about 20 or so in total, but only about 5 or 6 of 'em are worth carving. I found some great pumpkin stencils on the Internet and can't wait to see the girls' faces when we hollow out the jacks!

Things I'm thankful for....

Was just going through Rich's awesome Thanksgiving Day photos (My brother has a great eye for pics and is my go-to photog for photos I can't take.) and spotted this dandy of a pic. My eldest nephew Hunter, proudly holding up his Thanksgiving Day worksheet.

I printed off a bunch of these puzzles and wordsearch sheets in case the kids got bored or needed settling down pre-dinner. I knew Hunter, in particular, would like them as he enjoys puzzles and boardgames and anything that makes him think.

One of the activities on the worksheet asked the kids' to write down things they are thankful for. A good exercise on any given day, but especially fitting for this holiday.

Things that Big H is thankful for:

• turkey
• gravy
• my friends
• games
• my house
• my food
• the electricity
• the world

Electricity? Which without we could never play Wii. A basic need for sure. And gravy. We could all use more gravy.

Directly from the mouths of babes. (Or, rather, from the hand of a nearly-7-year-old.) As you can imagine, my sister (his mother) decided she had to keep this worksheet for the scrapbook.

Things I'm grateful for? These dang kids. All of them in their silly, serious ways. Love you, H.